Honoring John Lewis

John Robert Lewis (February 21, 1940 – July 17, 2020) was an American Congressman and civil rights activist who served in the United States House of Representatives for Georgia’s 5th congressional district from 1987 until his death in 2020. He was the chairman of the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee (SNCC) from 1963 to 1966. Lewis was one of the “Big Six” leaders of groups who organized the 1963 March on Washington. He fulfilled many key roles in the civil rights movement and its actions to end legalized racial segregation in the United States. In 1965, Lewis led the first of three Selma to Montgomery marches across the Edmund Pettus Bridge. In an incident which became known as Bloody Sunday, state troopers and police attacked themarchers, including Lewis.

A member of the Democratic Party, Lewis was first elected to Congress in 1986 and served 17 terms in the U.S. House of Representatives. The district he represented included most of Atlanta. Due to his length of service, he became the dean of the Georgia congressional delegation. While in the House, Lewis was one of the leaders of the Democratic Party, serving from 1991 as a Chief Deputy Whip and from 2003 as a Senior Chief Deputy Whip. John Lewis received many honorary degrees and awards, including the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2011.

Honoring Norman Stikes

Norman Stikes was a quiet, nurturing, strong, supportive presence in the foster home he shared with his wife Lori. He selflessly cared for many of the county’s most vulnerable youth without complaint. Since 2012, Norm fostered more than 70 children from Monroe who needed a loving, safe temporary home. He and Lori often took these children in at a moment’s notice. Together they provided them with structure, allowed them to heal, and helped them take their next steps in their journeys. They often cared for special needs children, large sibling groups, and those with fragile medical conditions. Every child that passed through their home was given a respite from the abuse and neglect that led them there. Norm helped all these children create better paths and opportunities for positive life experiences. He did not draw the line with supporting the children; he also supported the parents and modeled positive parenting behaviors demonstrating that it takes a village to create stronger families. Sadly, in December 2021, Norm lost his battle with Covid and passed away. He leaves behind many people who remember him fondly for having lived out a calling. He took action to help others and made a true difference in this world for so many children. Wesley House Family Services is indebted to him for everything he has done for foster youth in Monroe County, and we will deeply miss him.

 

“He was a realist, a person who saw through the nonsense and got straight to the point with dignity and respect to take care of the kids in his home; he recognized it took a village to help families and he played a central role.” –Tiffany Da Silva WHFS, CBC Director

“Norman was overall a kind man. You can tell he enjoyed his job and got along well with the kids. He was also very funny and could crack a joke in almost any way and is loved by many.”— Foster Youth 

“I will always remember Norman’s influence on kids, he was a natural ‘dad’, he lived that role, he was proud of the kids and really made a difference.” – Ben Kemmer FKCS, CEO

“He was a loving and funny foster Dad who made the sad days happier. I will miss him and his home with the chocolate cookies.” -Foster Youth

“Mr. Norm was a great person and would always help me out if I needed it. Anytime I was upset or down he knew how to make me smile. Mr. Norm was and still is a big inspiration for me to become successful. He told me about the adventures he has been on and the places he traveled. I want to be like that one day. He understood me like no one else and truly saw me. I could always rely on him to make me laugh or just talk seriously. He wholeheartedly loved me and my siblings and always wanted us to succeed. He was a really wise man and I wanted him to see all my accomplishments. I hope God is treating him right up there. Just know I will always miss you Mr. Norman.” –foster youth. 

“Norm was larger than life, and still somehow the gentle giant that supported so many children in their times of need. I always appreciated his sense of humor, and willingness to help any child who came through their door. He was non-judgmental with the kids and allowed them to just be kids. Wesley House was blessed to have Norm, and he will be sorely missed.”—Megan Burgess, Foster Parent Coordinator

“Norm was a mentor to so many youths that cross his path. He was a beacon of hope to those that loss their way. A strong tower yet a gentle giant that will forever be remembered and never forgotten.”—WHFS Manager Kenneth Williams

“Norm was a strong role model for the many children who entered his home. He treated his foster children, their biological families, and community partners with the utmost respect. His compassion, baking skills, and generosity will be strongly missed.”—WHFS QA Liaison Nicole Moynihan

“I feel immeasurable fortune to be part of the team with Norm that set up the foster homes in Key West. He was always a delight to work with and talk to. I will miss him terribly. Norm changed opportunities for generations to come. “— Bryan Green WHFS, Board President.

“Norm was a compassionate foster parent and a mentor to our children. He was an example to all.”—Aleida Jacobo, WHFS CEO

“He was nice and friendly, as long as I lived with Mr. Norman he always treated me like family and he liked to joke with me and buy me things.”— Foster Youth

Honoring Suzanne Mounger

Suzanne Mounger was a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend. Her enthusiasm for life and adventure was contagious, and she never met a stranger. After visiting Key West for more than 15 years, her dream of living in this amazing community became a reality in 2011 when she moved here with her daughter and granddaughter, Cassidy & Delaney. She quickly acclimated to island life and was an avid supporter of local music and events. She met and married the love of her life, Scott, in 2015 and they traveled the world together, experiencing 26 countries and 28 states. Suzanne’s witty sense of humor, positive outlook, and dazzling smile remained strong throughout her year-long battle with pancreatic cancer, which sadly took her from us on November 15th, 2021. She is missed, but will remain in our hearts forever.

Honoring Woody Allen

Woody Allen, born Edward Rutledge Allen, Feb.12, 1950 in NYC, died Aug. 24, 2021 at home in Portsmouth, NH with his family by his side. Woody grew up in '50's Chicago (lifelong Cubs fan), '60's and '70's Manhattan with college years at Princeton University (class of '72). The English major with a musical soul followed his heart to Key West, FL where he settled in 1977 and flourished, creating a rich legacy of music composition, recording, and performance (foremost with his band The Survivors), fathering three beautiful children, and marrying the love of his life, Chance B. Allen.


Woody and Family moved to Portsmouth in 1995. His many years here included memorable stints performing at the York Harbor Inn, the Press Room and MC Perkins Cove, as well as minding the store at Gary's Guitars. Many locals will remember him as a kind and patient teacher of the guitar & ukulele. Woody also had a devoted Chigong practice.


He is predeceased by his father John and brother Peter, and is survived by his loving wife Chance, their children Zeph, Gracie and Finn Allen; also by his brother James "Din" and his mother Pat Allen, Sharona Setlock, Carla Fuquay, many beloved nieces, nephews, in-laws, friends, students, musical colleagues, co-workers, and fans.

The family is grateful to their many friends en Cayo Hueso. Forever may we keep "Feelin' good down in our neighborhood!"

Honoring Pat Marshall

Patrick (Pat) Marshall was a quiet guy with a winning smile who hated cigarette smoke and loved Skyline Chili dogs. He was the kind of guy who, no matter who you asked, he was their best friend. He loved his wife Sandy, & his dog Norton. His office was the corner of the Green Parrot Bar with his bottle of beer & a shot of Blackberry Brandy. He could build anything, repair anything, he was our go to guy. He came to Key West from the Shenandoah Valley and if you ever felt a little down, all you had to do was sit next to Patrick at the Green Parrot and he’d have you laughing in no time with his silly, made-up Dad Jokes!

Honoring Wanda Webb

Remembering Wanda Webb. Wanda could be found daily at the Green Parrot next to Whitey wearing a cute hat, her pirate coin and carrying one of her many “pocketbooks” unfortunately most of the pocketbooks were lost during the flooding of Wilma. Wanda knew all the news and rumors around Key West and was always ready with advice. Born in Tennessee, Wanda’s favorite places were St. Augustine and Key West. Wanda left us in December of 21 and we all miss her.

Honoring Joseph "Joe" Crehan

Joseph (“Joe”) Crehan was born in Tampa, Florida, on May 26, 1959, and lived his entire

life in Florida until his unfortunate early passing from a cardiac event on November 30, 2021,

when returning from a Thanksgiving vacation. In speaking with other born and raised Floridians,

Joe would always say they were “giving” their state away with so many others moving into

Florida. Joe believed in living life to the fullest, even in recent years when he was hampered by

a foot injury and wore a “Dr. Makimaa boot” for so long that friends teased him that it had

become a part of his body. Joe was an avid sailor and made his way to the Florida Keys around

1988, where he lived in Key West until his passing. While in Tampa, Joe worked in the medical

field at hospitals and then eventually became a paramedic after moving to the Keys. He was a

Monroe County paramedic for 13 years and was recognized once as “Paramedic of the Year.” Joe

loved that job, even though it was stressful, as he was able to help others in their time of need.

You would always find Joe there to help anyone, whether it was to fix your auto, hang hurricane

shutters, securing a boat for hurricanes, moving furniture, or just whatever someone wanted, he

was the “go to guy.” Joe gave so much, but in numerous quiet ways, and never wanting to

take any credit. Joe also worked many years at Publix, and as an Associate and then later a

Project Manager for West Marine, where he continued to work until his early death, and he

cherished the many friends he made over the years that he met through that job.

When not working, sailing was his passion and he loved his 41’ Morgan Out Island

sailboat, “Bajka,” which he lived on for many years. Joe, who was known as Sailor Joe, loved

cruising the waters of the Florida Keys, whether on Bajka or his small dinghy, which he even took

from Key West to Marathon once. In 1997, Joe and close friends, won the Key West to Veradero,

Cuba Race, in the cruising boat division. Joe often participated in the Schooner Wharf Wrecker’s

Cup Races and it was at a race in 1998 that he met his soulmate for life, Tricia Eables. With all of

his immediate family members dying before they turned 40 years old, Joe always believed this

would also be his fate in life. So, upon turning 40 in 1999, Joe retired from Monroe County and

he and Tricia cruised the Caribbean for over two years sailing all the way to St. Thomas before

eventually returning to Key West. They had the time of their lives, with many friends joining

them along the way, and remained friends for life with people they met on the various islands.

In 2005, Joe and Tricia purchased their dream home in Key West, known as the

“Treehouse”, and Joe was often found reading on the widow’s walk or making new friends with

strangers walking by on the street, whom he would often invite upstairs to see the view. Joe was

a constant reader, whether it was books, magazines, or his beloved New York Times, which he

got every day. Joe had an amazing mind and memory and was a firm believer that everyone

needed to know what was happening in the world so you could carry on a conversation at happy

hour. One could always find Joe with a smile on his face and being the life of a party, never

knowing what antic he may pull next. Joe had a life motto that “tough times don’t last, but tough

people do, so always be strong.” So, while Tricia, many friends, and family will miss Joe and his

smile every day, we know that he made a difference in this world and he will continue to look

out for us. So, fair winds and following seas, Sailor Joe!!

Honoring Bruce Gardner

Bruce Raymond Gardner, age 66 of Eastport Maryland, passed peacefully amongst his closest family in Annapolis, Maryland on Saturday, February 6, 2021. Bruce was born March 9, 1954 in Barnstable, Mass. and never strayed far from the water.

He was known for his charisma, big heart, sailing prowess, and incredible food. Bruce was also known and loved dearly as family, a restauranteur, a friendly neighbor, a world class sailor, and an incredible chef.

A black and white photo hangs in the basement of Bruce’s home showing him wearing a chef’s hat standing on the steps of Boston’s Fanueil Hall. It reads, “In France, they say if you want to build a truly great restaurant, you find a truly great Chef and build it around him. Wait ‘til you see what we built around Bruce.”

Bruce began his career as a bus boy and eventually worked his way up to head chef, running the entire kitchen of many restaurants, including Lily’s at Fanueil Hall. He opened and managed over a dozen restaurants in Cambridge, Mass. Bruce also opened Blossoms in DC followed by multiple Boston Seafood locations in D.C., St. Louis, and Kansas City.

Bruce left Boston for Maryland where he opened new restaurants, joined AYC, raised his two kids: Matthew and McKenzie. He opened The Station Grill in Washington D.C.’s The Union Station and for over 20 years, The Station Grill served both locals and travelers.

As an avid sailor and fierce competitor, Bruce competed in sailing regattas up and down the Eastern Seaboard, most notably on his boat, L’Outrage. From Sodus Bay, to Block Island, and all the way down to Key West, Bruce was well accomplished.

Bruce made everyone around him feel welcomed and smile. His charisma and big heart were ineffably notorious, his dance moves unforgettable, and his duck dialogue entertaining. Bruce was always willing to lend a hand and to help figure it out, whatever it may be.

Bruce is survived by Lisa, their dog Gigi, and his two kids Matthew and McKenzie. Bruce would be honored for donations to be made in his name to SPCA of Anne Arundel county, Ewe Spirit Fund or Hospice. For more information, the celebration of life, or to donate please visit https://bruce.gardner.cloud

Honoring Tamma Wells

Tamma was born in St Louis , Missouri in 1957 and found her way to Key West in 1985 . She was a bartender at Savannah and for 18 years Two Friends. In 1989 she met her life partner Barbara and together they made a happy life together with many cats and dogs and even fish. Quite fitting as they first met at The Pampered Pet !
Tamma discovered a love for computer technology and gained a degree at the Florida Keys Community College and worked in that field at LKMC. Later starting her own business ,Blue Sky Computer .She made many good friends while she fixed their computer issues and was lovingly referred to as a computer therapist . She was a devoted member of the Key West Buddhist sangha who were very involved in her lovely memorial.
Tamma was a kind and gentle soul with empathy for everyone. She also had a very zany sense of humor and often laughed the longest at her own jokes.
She faced her illness with quiet bravery ,gratitude and love for her friends and loved ones.When Tamma passed in 2015 ,she was surrounded with those she loved the most and who miss her every day.

Honoring Frances Head

Frances Head was a very persistent and determined woman. She lived almost 104 years, dying 6 weeks from her 104th birthdate. This persistence characterized her life as she came of age during the Depression and took the only available job of teaching in a one room schoolhouse near her hometown in Missouri. At that time one could teach with just a high school education. Determined to get a college education, she attended college for 15 summers to obtain both her undergraduate and master's degree in education. She enjoyed teaching the 5th and 6th grades the most. She managed to include travels to California, Colorado and New York at the end of these summers. During the war years of rationing she became the driver of the high school basketball team and insisted on polite behavior in her car. Also in the 1940s she obtained a teaching job in St. Louis where she eventually met her husband. Despite getting married in her mid thirties, she had three children in 4 years. After raising kids, she enjoyed traveling with her husband. Determined to the end she stayed in her own house until the time of her death.

Honoring Gee Somer

Gee was, and still is,the love of my life, we met in high school in 1970. we were married in 1972, we had 3 lovely children and they have blessed us with 6 grandchildren. in 2014 Gee was diagnosed with prostate cancer, which he beat. Sadly in 2016 he was diagnosed with laryngeal cancer which then spread to his lungs and liver. He fought so hard to retain a normal life, but cancer won the battle in 2018.He left a legacy of love to all who knew him.